‘Gold digger’ shares her dating rules for women

Twenty-four-year-old Ella Freimann from Miami describes herself as a “level-up coach”.

The woman makes TikTok videos dispensing her pearls of wisdom to others.

She advocates that women should never split the bill with men and that men should consider women to be “investments”.

Her lessons include insights such as “demanding certain requirements is not simply about money but about quantifying the effort a man is willing to put in.”

She posted this message alongside the hashtags “princess treatment”, “dating advice for girls” and “dating advice 101”.

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Ella has a number of important rules for women besides never splitting the bill with a man.

Ella does not advocate coffee dates, telling her followers: “Being asked for a coffee date it’s his way of telling you that he sees no value in you. Therefore, you’re not worthy of an investment.”

Ella also advises women don’t accept dates from men who have known them for four days or more.

She said: “If a man has not proposed a date within the three days of knowing you. He’s either a broke man or has no interest in pursuing you.”

The content creator has experienced an online backlash but defended her views to NeedToKnow.co.uk.

She explained: “By splitting the bill, I’m agreeing to form a connection with a man who doesn’t know his role in a relationship and expects me to be 50 percent of the man he’s not.”

Friemann says she learned her outlook on dating from her traditional parents. She said: “I was fortunate enough to grow up with both of my parents so I had a clear example of how gender roles build the foundation of a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

“I grew up with a providing father and a nurturing mother who had the luxury of raising her children and being a stay-home mother.”

She added: “Also, I feel like women should learn a few things from gold diggers, they always ask for what they want.”

Friemann believes that men who allow their female partners to pay bills are opening themselves up to abuse.

She wrote in one video: “The more bills a woman pays in a relationship, the more the man puts himself in a position to be talked to & treated disrespectfully.”

To her female followers, she wrote: “The world opens up for you when you accept your femininity and start dating wealthy men. Dating broke men will only stress you out.”